There are some
sorts of people who might have the tendency of doing something weird . For me
and the other two Lailas ; which are Mom & elder sis , we are really
affectionate to naming our favorite objects (including animals but animals are
obviously not an object & usually have names anyway) especially our cars .
Well , for me it’s not just my car but I also named all of my favorite Kuma
Kuma toy series that I collected since I was a kid , and I named my dolls , my
mobile phones , laptops and anything that I thought ; “it would be very nice if
they have a name” .
You see , most of
the times I like to treat my beloved things as my pets ; a non-living one . Perhaps
this kind of behavior comes from my mom . She has a very deep feeling to each
one of her cars , and sometimes ; home and plants . She talks to her cars like
they’re her cats and cries a lot when she have to sell one or trade in it with
the other new car . It does sound funny , and it is super hilarious in reality
but it’s one of the cutest facts about my mom .
I don’t know
much about the first two cars Mom bought because I was too little to remember
or even care about those pint-sized things . When I was in primary school , I met
mom’s third car – I think; a pitch black Proton (I can’t really summon up if
it’s Saga or any other Proton’s products but I do recall it was a box-like car)
after she trade in her maroon Perodua Kancil – and she cried so hard like a
heavy rain with thunderstorm as she had to leave the petite car . Mom called it
‘Hitam’ which means ‘black’ in Malay .
After I went to
further my study in diploma , Mom made a surprise by showing her new car – when
she came to give me a visit , a white Proton Saga which was quite famous
throughout that year . It was more round-in-shape . Mom called it ‘Putih’ (white) ,
but then we decided to call it Shiro ; which also means white but in Japanese ,
and of course it is the name of Shin Chan’s puppy .
Shiro stayed
with us for 3 or 4 years I think but then after a few unexpected occurrences ;
Mom sold it to her sister and she brought home a dark green Honda City . It is a
classic one but still in a good condition . Well not fully ; there are some
problems we had to fix . For this ancient beauty , Mom decided to call it Adudu .
For your
information , Adudu is a fictional character from the famous Malaysian cartoon ;
Boboiboy . He is the main antagonist and he is green . Yes , you heard right . He
is a green alien . I don’t know much about the character or the cartoon itself –
as I’m not that interested to watch it anyway . . . but once again , Mom is weird and
she loves the show . She watches the local animation together with my little
cousins and sometimes by herself .
Mom’s already 48
years old this year . Despite how she looks and what age she’s getting into ; she
will always acts like a funny innocent youngster . Her cheerful faces
occasionally make us forget that she’s a cancer patient . Plus , her childish
behavior did affects us ; her daughters . We became playful too but only when
we’re with her and particular groups of people .
These behaviors
of naming object , watching cartoons , talking to things, etc. ; they are a
collection of good memories that Mom leaves for us to be remembered . It is
undeniable that we grew up differently from some other kids but we have what
they might not own . When I was a kid, I cursed myself for the dissimilarities
of my life compared to my friends . Now I can’t feel grateful enough. If The
Almighty didn't write my whole story in this way ; I wouldn't be me . I would
never see how a woman could be stronger than anyone’s expectation in a female
race . Mom showed the magic tricks to me . God opened my eyes for me to see it clearly ,
in a method that only I could understand .
P/S: Happy
belated birthday, Mom.